Sunday, February 18, 2018

Milestones: Small, Big, and Bigger

Milestones
2-18-2018

When you think of the word, milestone, what is the first thought that comes to mind? A birthday? A special life event such as marriage, your first child, or your first house?
These are the typical milestones that the average human strives for.
It is unprecedented that we strive for more and more everyday and that our goals and dreams stretch beyond those around us. We want more from life than we are given; that is a definite fact.
But, what about those milestones that mean so much to others that don’t involve a relationship or a $250,000 financial investment?
These milestones are as small as getting your first research article published that will impact thousands of others, one of many successful writings in your career; as small as having a wonderful day at work after 2 weeks of hellish backwater; as small as making a delicatessen meal for your family after burning the steak and sauce like every previous attempt, and as small as finishing an educational preparation lecture/or good book after 2 weeks of putting it off.
Milestones such as these have incredible meaning because they are simple triumphs leading up to the completion of greater triumphs.
Small triumphs make greater triumphs measurable. Having measurable goals and taking steps little by little will make the greatest successes seem easily achievable because you cut it up into smaller tasks.
Mind-blowing that concept, but it’s been proven to work. How exactly? Well a perfect example is Abraham Lincoln, one of our nation’s most beloved and influential presidents, who was given the presidency at one of the most crucial moments in American history, the Civil War.
Abraham Lincoln was a lawyer from Illinois who tried to preserve the Unity of the United States and abolish the treachery that was slavery. He was handed a very daunting task that seemed impossible and, otherwise intimidating.
But, back to my discussion of milestones, Abraham Lincoln conquered the calamity that was slavery and the secession that was the Civil War with mini milestones.
He was an early-riser and a late-night worker. He wrote down ideas on scraps of paper and saved them until he needed them. He would stay up late read the local newspapers so he always stayed on top of what was happening. He would argue constantly with his cabinet and Congress about his goals and desires for the nation which led to the passing of the Emancipation Proclamation on January 1st, 1863 to weaken the Rebel south and the passing of the 13th Amendment to abolish slavery on January 31st, 1865.
Read that passage again and tell me that man didn’t burn bridges and persevere to change our country for the better.
Abraham Lincoln was one of the most influential and well-versed men in our country’s history. He is my favorite president of all time! He had a wit and dignity that couldn’t be matched even by today’s standards, in my opinion.
But back to my discussion, milestones are moments in life where your endurance, agility, intelligence, and welfare are tested at their limits. It is those moments in life where what you thought was impossible becomes possible and closer to touch. It is those moments that make all the sacrifices and tears worth it because you know you deserve this shot.
We have all made milestones that we are proud of. We have all made milestones that have made us cry happy tears because we can’t believe it happened. We all have those greater successes in our sights, but before you get ahead of yourself, take a step back, and ask “What mini milestones can I achieve to work up to that greater success today?”

More Information about Abraham Lincoln and why I’m so obsessed with his legacy please check out these links and videos which are also where I received my information, too: